Ladies, let’s tune into our feminine energy within ourselves more and more. Males and females possess both masculine and feminine energy within us. If you look deep enough, you know which energy that shows up more. Naturally, this depends on a few factors, like the city you live in, if you hold a managerial position or if you are a single mom. For some of us ladies who live in big metropolitan cities and hold leadership roles, we exude our masculine energy more than our feminine energy at times. This is because the masculine energy is focused, logical and a do-er. To keep ourselves competitive and competent in our professional career, we have to apply this mindset. The feminine energy is creative, adaptable and dynamic. When you are at balance and know how to combine these two energies together, it is quite powerful.
In this article, we will look into the different ways of how we can get more tuned in to our feminine energy because I find myself, at times, when I noticed, I have not been kind and loving towards myself. I can feel that somewhere deep within me is seeking for appreciation and validation of my true self.
Here are the 3 tips on how to tune to our feminine energy
1. Dress vs Pants
The quickest way to shifting my current masculine energy into feminine is the way I dress. I would put on a dress instead of wearing pants and a top. I would feel feminine because I am now centering myself to be a woman and getting in touch with my femininity.
2. Flowing vs Controlling
Wanting a certain outcome to happen can mean that we control whatever variables are at play to achieve this goal. I think sometimes, it would be good to “be”. For example, in a romantic relationship, if things do not go in a more loving way as you would have wanted, let yourself be where you are right now. Surrender and let go. Applying self love now would be the perfect time. Whatever it is, like meeting your girlfriends, going to the spas, just take care of yourself. Release the flow of your feminine energy.
3. Appreciate vs Complain
To get things done, we have to be focused and goal oriented. This is excellent at work but at times, we might continue to function in this way at home with our husband, or partner, or with our kids. Let’s show them more appreciation and love gestures instead of being too controlling. Let things flow by using softer language instead of instructional language.